"In this lifetime,you cannot avoid GOSSIPS and UNKIND WORDS from other people. I mean, whatever you do. You will never be able to please everybody. It is a universal precept and you cannot dodge it. So quit trying.
Enjoy your life and let them be. But remember:
Don't resent the fact that people keep checking on you, besides, if YOU weren't WORTH anything... they wouldn't BOTHER.."