Of Past love...

Old Text ng ex ko na hanggang ngayon super important pa rin sa akin, remember mo pa kaya...


Sabi ko kakalimutan na kita, pinilit ko di ko kaya, sinikap ko ang hirap pala, ano gagawin ko, umiwas, magtago, Saan??? Maliit lang ang mundo ko, umiikot lang sayo.....


I'm still saving this text message.... It's been 5 years and still nasa old phone ko pa rin siya. Ashihihihihihhhhhh....

Larv It!!!

"In this lifetime,you cannot avoid GOSSIPS and UNKIND WORDS from other people. I mean, whatever you do. You will never be able to please everybody. It is a universal precept and you cannot dodge it. So quit trying.

Enjoy your life and let them be. But remember:

Don't resent the fact that people keep checking on you, besides, if YOU weren't WORTH anything... they wouldn't BOTHER.."

The Rules of Being Human

You will receive a body. You may like it or hate it, but it will be yours for as long as you live. How you take care of it or fail to take care of it can make an enormous difference in the quality of your life.

You will learn lessons. You are enrolled in a full-time, informal school called Life. Each day, you will be presented with opportunities to learn what you need to know. The lessons presented are often completely different from those you think you need.

There are no mistakes, only lessons. Growth is a process of trial, error and experimentation. You can learn as much from failure as you can from success. Maybe more.

A lesson is repeated until it is learned. A lesson will be presented to you in various forms until you have learned it. When you have learned it (as evidenced by a change in your attitude and ultimately your behavior) then you can go on to the next lesson.

Learning lessons does not end. There is no stage of life that does not contain some lessons. As long as you live there will be something more to learn.

“There” is no better than “here”. When your “there” has become a “here” you will simply discover another “there” that will again look better than your “here.” Don’t be fooled by believing that the unattainable is better than what you have.

Others are merely mirrors of you. You cannot love or hate something about another person unless it reflects something you love or hate about yourself. When tempted to criticize others, ask yourself why you feel so strongly.

What you make of your life is up to you. You have all the tools and resources you need. What you create with those tools and resources is up to you. Remember that through desire, goal setting and unflagging effort you can have anything you want. Persistence is the key to success.
The answers lie inside of you. The solutions to all of life’s problems lie within your grasp. All you need to do is ask, look, listen and trust yourself.

Bursting Out....

It's sad to see when a person whom you thought would be honest with you would lie to your face over something so irrelevant. And here you thought your friendship was deeper than that. Guess what. You were wrong. She lied.

Hey you, ponder over what's important in life.. if you're really honest with yourself then maybe you'd learn to be honest with others as well. Maybe you'll stop finding other people's faults and concentrate on fixing your own... Stop psychoanalyzing me and analyze yourself.

To be the better person and just let things be. To find happiness with people you least expect..

To finally be in a place where you just stop trying and caring about what other people will think and say...

To start pleasing yourself and not others...

And when a friend lies to you, do try and understand the reasons behind that lie...

From Mah Most Loved TC

When someone walk out of your life, let them. There's no use on wasting your time on people that leave you. What you make of yourself and your future is no longer tied to them. Yeah, you may miss them, but remember that you weren't the first one to give up.

-=Tynie Tiozon=-

LIFE LESSON

I was looking for some inspiration when I came across this, and while reading through it, I couldn't help but realized how true each and every statement is...

I'm not sure who wrote this, but since it's written in the form of the 1st person, then I guess it's because these are things that we SHOULD tell ourselves.. That these are the things that we've learned in life...

LIFE LESSONS

I've learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.



I've learned that no matter how much I care some people just don't care back.



I've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.



I've learned that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.



I've learned that it's not what you have in your life, but whom you have in your life that counts.



I've learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.



I've learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.



I've learned that either you control your attitude or it controls you.



I've learned that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.



I've learned that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you’ve celebrated.



I've learned that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.



I've learned that no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.



I've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.



I've learned that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other. And, just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.



I’ve learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn’t stop for your grief.



I’ve learned that no matter how you try to protect your children, they will eventually get hurt, and you will hurt in the process.



I've learned that you should never tell a child their dreams are unlikely or outlandish. Few things are more humiliating, and what a tragedy it would be if they believed it.



I've learned that heroes are people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.



I’ve learned that you can keep going long after you can’t.








In Excess:





Experience is really the best teacher in life.

LESSONS LEARNED

Sometimes, in our incessant efforts to find the person we love, we fail to see and appreciate the people who love us. We would miss out on so many wonderful things simply because we allow ourselves to be enslaved by our own selfish concerns. We keep on looking so far away when all we needed to do was look behind us.

They say that one will find rewarding happiness not with the man she loves but with the man who loves her more. To "go for the man of deeds and not for the man of words". I believe that the best lovers are those who are capable of loving from a distance --far enough to allow the other person to grow, but never too far to feel the love within your being.
When you let someone go, it doesnt necessarily mean you have to stop loving that person. It only means that you're allowing that person to find his/her own happiness without expecting him/her to come back. To let go is not just setting that other person free, but yourself as well --- you are setting yourself free from all the bitterness, hatred, and anger that you may keep in your heart.
Bitterness may rare away your strength and weaken your faith. The experience of pain may dishearten you, but you should not allow that. Instead, it should let you grow, in wisdom bearing it. Pain will only make us stronger and wiser.

Sometimes, we'd think that we have found peace in just loving someone from a distance not expecting anything in return. But though this can sustain life, it can never give us enough room to grow. We tend to be stuck in the past that we sometimes end up losing ourselves. We can all survive with just beautiful memories of the past but then again, real peace and happiness will only come once we've accepted of what reality is today.

Then there comes a time in our lives when we chance upon someone we get so intensely attracted to. This attraction soon becomes part of our daily lives and eventually consumes our thoughts and our actions. The sad part of it is when we begin to realize that this person feels nothing for us and all they can offer is a platonic relationship, we start our desperate attempts to get noticed and be closer but in the end, all our efforts are unrewarded and we end up just feeling sorry for ourselves.

One does not really need to forget someone he/she has fallen for. What is needed though, is to learn to accept reality without being bitter or sorry for yourself. Trust me, you would be better off giving that dedication and love to someone MORE DESERVING. Don't let your heart run your life. I've made that mistake before. We should learn to be sensible and let our minds speak for itself. Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well... You'd be surprised on how irrational one is when letting emotions run her life.

Always keep in mind that if you lose someone today, it only means that someone better is coming tomorrow. Or next week. Or next year. Who knows? Be patient. It will come. If you lose love, it doesnt mean that you failed in love. CRY if you have to. Cry until your eyes run dry but make sure all those tears wash away all the hurt, the hate and the bitterness that the past has already left you.. Let go of yesterday and love will find its way back to you. And when it does, pray that it may be the love that will stay and last a lifetime.

As for me, I'm still waiting.... but I know that when HE comes, everything will be worth it. :)

Random Thoughts

"In the end, only three things matter ---

how much you LOVED,
how gently you LIVED,

and

how gracefully you LET GO of things not meant for you..."

Thoughts to Ponder

Life is too short to wake up with regrets.

So love the people who treat you right.Love the ones who don't just because you can.

Believe everything happens for a reason.

If you get a second chance, grab it with both hands.If it changes your life, let it.

Kiss slowly.

Forgive quickly.

God never said life would be easy. He just promised it would be worth it.

Random

Sometimes change is what's best, letting your heart break and learning how to cope.


-=Ryan James Javier=-

Love and More Love...

Hate is not the opposite of love.
Because hating someone means you care enough to feel so strongly about the person.
So the real opposite of love is Apathy.
To simply not care at all shows how irrelevant that person is to you .


-Aika Belga